No. I don’t offer escort services, and never have (anyone telling you otherwise on Grindr, etc, are lying). Full respect to those who do; phyical sex work is hard ass real work, and vital, but my work is rooted in audiovisual content, psychological frameworks, and longform control systems. Any in-person interaction is strictly personal, never transactional, and always based on mutual trust built over time. If you’re looking for casual meets or paid sessions, this isn’t that, and never will be.

Custom projects are available on a highly limited basis for private clients. Availability is reserved for larger-budget, high-investment commissions, typically bespoke series developed over 1–2 weeks, for those seeking comprehensive, personalized content with intent and depth. Past clients have included high-profile and celebrity figures. If you’re seeking something tailored, discreet, and exceptional—contact me directly to discuss.

It’s simpler than people think. It’s not about control being taken, it’s about you being guided to give it up, piece by piece. Through tone, repetition, suggestion, and structure, your mind starts choosing the path it’s offered. That path feels good. Feels right. So you keep going. My system is built to make that process seamless, safe, and lasting. There are strict ethical boundaries behind everything I do, so you can let go fully, without fear it'll harm you long-term. And once it starts working, you’ll wonder why you ever resisted.

Absolutely, and they show up in ways no one expects at first. Over the years, dozens of my Cultists have reported deeper confidence, less shame, and a more open, liberated relationship with their sexuality and identity. Some expanded their kinks. Some embraced parts of themselves they’d buried. A few discovered they were trans. Others built art, landed jobs, bought homes. Two incredible people even got married. It’s not magic. It’s just what happens when you start living without apology.

Right? That’s kind of the point. People always assume it's all very bad. Truth is, the framing keeps out the unserious and makes space for creativity, depth, and real transformation. The themes might flirt with the extreme, but the structure underneath is serious—rooted in consent, trust, and care. The Cult of Sir runs on safeword-trigger systems, active moderation, and AI-driven protections against raids, misgendering, and kink shaming. It’s a five-star-reviewed community built by real people, for real submission. A living, breathing, real Cult, done different. Genuinely fuckin' different.